1 Peter 3:9
1 Peter 3:9
Not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but contrariwise blessing; knowing that ye are thereunto called, that ye should inherit a blessing.
When someone insults or does evil things to us, whether it be physically, verbally, or emotionally, our normal human impulse is to strike back with the same hurtful treatment we receive. Unfortunately, it usually makes the situation worse. That's not how God works. When Jesus was whipped, beaten, and nailed to the cross, He did not strike back physically or verbally. In fact, He blessed them and asked God to forgive them. Whenever we find ourselves in a difficult situation, we should always look to Jesus for guidance. In this verse, Peter urges us to pour out blessings upon those who do evil to us. Easier said than done. How can we do that, and why would we ever do such a thing for someone who has hurt us or insulted us? Peter answered that question in 1 Peter 2:21-25. We respond with a blessing when given evil because that's what Jesus did for us. He took on everything that we were supposed to suffer and paid the full price of our sins with His blood so that we could be free and have eternal life. How can we not pay the blessing forward? There will be times when someone does evil to you or insults you. Before you react, think about how God has treated you when you insulted or did evil to Him. He showed you love and blessed you. Take that same blessing and pour it forward to another. And as we give blessings for insults and evil, we will obtain or "inherit" a blessing for ourselves.
Mark 11:26
But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses.
Luke 17:4
And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to thee, saying, I repent; thou shalt forgive him.
Luke 6:29
And unto him that smiteth thee on the one cheek offer also the other; and him that taketh away thy cloke forbid not to take thy coat also.
Psalms 86:5
You, Lord, are forgiving and good, abounding in love to all who call to you.