Proverbs 26:20
Proverbs 26:20
Without wood a fire goes out; without a gossip a quarrel dies down.
Just as a fire dies without wood, a quarrel can be extinguished without gossip. Gossip fuels conflicts by spreading division and distrust. It stirs up animosity and keeps wounds open, preventing healing. However, when we refrain from gossip and choose to remain silent, the conflict loses its fuel and eventually dies down. This verse teaches us the power of restraint in preserving peace. When we resist the urge to spread negative or harmful information about others, we protect relationships and prevent unnecessary strife. In situations where tempers are high, withholding gossip can be the key to diffusing tension and fostering understanding. By refusing to engage in gossip, we create a peaceful atmosphere where people can work through their issues without the added burden of division and mistrust. Restraint in speech is not only wise but also a powerful tool for maintaining harmony in relationships and communities.
James 1:26
If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue, he deceives his heart.
Proverbs 17:9
He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends.
Proverbs 11:13
A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy person keeps a secret.
Proverbs 20:19
He who goes about as a slanderer reveals secrets; therefore, do not associate with him.